Seeing a black widow spider – whether in your waking life or in a dream – can be alarming. Even if you don’t normally suffer from arachnophobia, having to see them tends to bring to the fore all sorts of dark thoughts and feelings.
They’re just something about them that can be discombobulating and upsetting for even the hardest among us.
Maybe that’s because it’s a stunning creature that tends to communicate something very particular to our intuition that we can’t quite put a finger on, and remain unsure of how to address.
They are tremendously intelligent and gifted creatures – just look at how incredible a spider web looks and how sturdy that structure is. That could contribute to the general sense of unease they invoke, because a spider’s web is, after all, a way to capture its prey.
General Information About Black Widow Spider
Let’s begin by uncovering the unique features of the black widow spider. While this unique creature seems like its existence would be a given anywhere – if we were to go by only what we understand culturally – but in reality, its population is mostly found in Canada, the USA, Europe, Central Asia, and China.
Black Widow Spider Colors and Sizes
It has shiny color, and the female tends to have two bright red spots or a bright red hourglass-shaped spot on its underside. These markings, however, are not easy to see from the top, which is one key way in which they’re different from other species.
The hourglass shape can be taken to denote many things, but its indelible link to time makes it all the more poignant: few things are as mysterious to humans as the passing of time. The male, on the other hand, is nearly half the size of the female, and is typically gray or brown in color, in stark contrast to the glossy black coat of its female counterpart.
Another major difference is that the male spider has yellow or white markings on its underside instead of red, and nothing like the majestic hourglass shape typically found in females.
Perhaps another important thing to know is that the female black widow spider has a poison that can incur tremendous harm, being three times as powerful as that of males.
They are also incredibly territorial and don’t like to have their mate anywhere near their territory. Once they have mated and are in possession of the eggs, the male spider is banished, and the female black widow spider can live on her own, queen of her domain.
Arguably, some of the negative connotations we have with female black widow spiders can be reflected in the broader cultural fear of women in general. After all, it is the female who is incredibly dangerous, and her poison serves as a reminder to all who enter her domain that she shouldn’t be messed with.
Furthermore, she serves as a reminder that time is rarely on our side. Of course, the connotations of the hourglass are relatively recent cultural artifacts, but it nonetheless feeds into our understanding of a black widow spider. It only makes sense that that intense negativity is communicated spiritually as well.
Given this context, you can see how the image of the black widow spider can be so leaden and can mean a bunch of different things to different people.
1. Denoting Domination
For starters, the presence of the black widow spider can denote domination, and underscore a feeling of vulnerability or entrapment you may be experiencing. If you feel stuck, in a hostile environment and waiting for someone to attack you, then that may be another thing the spider is trying to warn you about.
2. Negativity and Hatred
This intense fear and sense of confinement can lead to a sense that you’re about to be attacked, or living in a hostile environment with impending danger lurking just over the horizon. One of the more popular sequences you may find in horror movies is of the main character getting spider bites from these powerful predators. This is meant to serve as a metaphor for some kind of intense hatred that an individual may be experiencing. –
In the spiritual sense, the act of biting is meant to denote negativity or an intense warning that bad energy is coming your way.
If this were to happen to you in your waking life and not in a movie, this sense of imbalance can, naturally, feel rather dangerous and make you uneasy: maybe you’re under the spell of a cunning trickster, and the spider symbolism is meant to be a stand-in for something your subconscious is trying to tell you.
3. Independence and Creativity
On the other hand, the black widow spider can have positive connotations as well. Ask any practitioner of Wicca or the spiritual arts. For example, the black widow spider is meant to communicate an intense sense of creativity or independence. It’s often taken as a sign that one should listen more to their inner voice, and try to correct any energy imbalances they could be suffering from. In fact, intensely creative souls tend to dream of a black widow spider often, and they have trouble pinpointing why.
For those who know and would like to nurture their artistic muse, the black widow symbolizes traits that they would like to immortalize in a tattoo. Black widow tattoos serve as a reminder that the road to creative freedom and independence isn’t always easy, which is why you’ll find the image decorating the arms of many people.
Dream Logic Examples
Let’s apply some dream logic and figure out what the black widow spider could mean in all of its different iterations.
For intensely spiritual people, it is widely understood that dreams are a way of better understanding details that elude us in waking life, which our subconscious desperately tries to communicate to us in sleep. Therefore, unlocking some classic dream interpretations of the black widow spider can also help us better understand their broader spiritual implications.
1. Emotional Entrapment
For starters, in ancient cultures, the presence of a black widow spider in your dreams is also similar to spider Christianity symbolism in that it often comes down to the relationships in your life.
It may be trying to tell you that your relationship is an illusion and that there is a shadow self trying to let you know that you need to get out. This is almost similar to the presence of fishing nets in a dream.
The presence of wolf spiders, or the spider’s web symbolism is almost similar, in that they are denoting a form of entrapment. If you are uncertain about the relationship and want to end it, but are also eager to avoid the inevitable depression or grief that will come after ending the relationship, then your black widow spider dream may be a way of your subconscious letting you know that it’s aware of your emotional state.
2. Conflicted Feelings
You may have mixed feelings and may even be experiencing an extreme sense of despair due to your relationship with another person, and need to end it – or prove a sense of dominion over them.
This is often the case when we are thinking about our relationship with an abusive partner, or even a domineering parent whom we love but recognize we need to set boundaries with.
There are other clearer examples of this kind of dream and what it would mean: if you experience a bite, then you could be feeling vulnerable and desperate to remove the threat. If you’re the one who is biting in a manner akin to a black widow spider, it could be because you are feeling suffocated by the presence of someone else, and you’re trying to exert your willpower over them.
3. Violent Endings
A particularly violent dream involving a black widow spider means that you’re unhappy with your companion in real life, and your hostility has reached a boiling point.
This might be a way of your subconscious letting you know that it’s time to take charge of your situation and leave – not only for the sake of your health but for your partner’s as well.
4. Self Destructive
Alternatively, if you see a black widow spider in its web, catching then brutally murdering its prey, it may be a sign that you are being self-destructive, or hurting people around you and not aware of how your actions are affecting others.
This isn’t because you’re a bad person or going on a selfish kick: maybe you’re also doing good things for others, but it could come at someone else’s expense. Either way, the dream could be telling you to reign it in and be careful with your good intentions and the path they may lead you on.
5. A Desire to Protect
Also, black widow spiders actually have eyes on their head, which allow them to see from multiple angles at once. That may be frightening, but it’s also a remarkable power that allows them to be on the lookout for all possible threats from other predators.
So, seeing them in a dream can also symbolize a deep need you may have to stay away from all these different obstacles in your waking life. Or, you could be worried about your loved ones and looking to protect them, but feel rather helpless. The black widow spider could be telling you to slow down and listen to your intuition.
Perhaps the solution is far easier than you think, but your anxiety doesn’t allow you to see it. Your gut feeling is the best thing to prevent you from getting lost in your head, and you shouldn’t disregard it when you find yourself in difficult situations, or dealing with untrustworthy people.
If you see a black widow spider, you shouldn’t necessarily be scared – although it’s understandable that that would be your initial reaction. You could take it to mean that it’s warning you of trouble ahead, or, if you dreamed the image, your subconscious letting you know that you should avoid darker paths.
It may also be an encouraging symbol of artistic expression, one which you may have neglected for quite some time. Suppressing your creativity is a bad sign, and the black widow spider is your mind letting you know that. Any spiritual meaning derived from encountering this insect would ultimately boil down to the specifics of your own life.